Bollywood star Shahid Kapoor recently opened up about the emotional struggles he has faced in relationships and the life lessons heartbreaks have taught him.
Speaking candidly during a podcast interview with Raj Shamani, Shahid delved into the feelings of inadequacy and desperation that often accompany rejection, admitting that his own emotional tendencies had, at times, hindered his relationships.
The actor described heartbreak as a humbling experience that forced him to confront uncomfortable truths about himself. He acknowledged that during periods of intense emotional pain, it’s easy to question one’s worth and chase after a relationship at the expense of self-respect. Over the years, Shahid has come to see these struggles as opportunities for personal growth, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness in building healthy relationships.
Shahid also highlighted a significant shift in his understanding of love. He revealed that in the past, he often sought validation and comfort, a neediness that placed unnecessary pressure on his relationships. However, he has since realized that true love lies in selfless giving, rather than in expecting others to fulfill personal emotional needs. When both partners focus on giving rather than taking, he believes, relationships thrive without unnecessary strain.
Another key takeaway from his journey is the need to assess whether a relationship brings out the best in both partners. Shahid stressed that if the connection leads to feelings of entitlement or unmet expectations, it might be a sign that the dynamic is not right for either person. Additionally, he reflected on the complexity of understanding a partner fully, noting that as relationships deepen, people often discover new facets of each other, which can sometimes be mistaken for change.
On the professional front, Shahid is gearing up for the release of ‘Deva,’ an action thriller where he plays a determined cop. The film, directed by Rosshan Andrrews, features an ensemble cast including Pooja Hegde, Pavail Gulati, Pravessh Rana, and Kubbra Sait. The movie is expected to be a different take on the Malayalam thriller ‘Mumbai Police ‘.
